Inspired by "Speak Out" by Lawrence Ferlinghetti and beat poet
You are living in the dream country. You are so lucky to live in a country that gives you freedom and equality. Or so they say. You stand there silently along with your parents and classmates silent, silent of the fact that your society treats your brother differently than you. Remember liberty and justice for all. "You should never walk alone at night, you will look like an easy victim ". "Don't wear that unless you want to get raped ". "Don't drink too much the boys will take advantage of you". Yet when boys hit girls in kindergarten all they say is "boys will be boys". Then when you ask why your brother can stay out longer than you at night your father replies "Because he's a boy we don't have to worry about him". Teaching boys that raping girls isn't OK we blame the victims. "They can't control themselves cover your shoulders ". "Don't wear those short shorts your distracting the boys from their education". "If your shirt is that low they can't pay attention in class". Our society asks victims questions like "what were you wearing?" and "were you drinking?" because if they get depicted as "asking for it" it's their fault. Yet a lot stand silent and don't speak out what they know is right. I will not let societal acceptance of sexism in our country silenced me from what I know to be wrong and I never want my future daughter to be told "don't worry he just likes you" when a boy called her mean names in school and I never want her to question if what's she's wearing makes her look like a victim. I hope she will not stay in silence like many do.
Zoe, this is an incredible, thought provoking piece that hits hard and close to home and really shines a spotlight on the inequity and injustice done socially in the "greatest country in the world". Too many times I think many girls have heard these exact quotes from people who they trust or love and it invalidates their experiences and feelings and can often leave them feeling like no one cares or believes them, which is an awful feeling. Thank you for protesting this social misogyny.
ReplyDeleteZoe, your analysis of popular culture and rape culture is completely accurate. It's so powerful how you explain what's happening. Being from a family of only female offspring I've never had the experience of having my parents tell me a brother can stay out longer than I. Being the oldest daughter I'm not allowed to work anywhere where the parking lot is dangerous. I was given a pepper spray at fifteen and was told to always keep it in my pocket. It is amazing the clarity you give the reality of rape culture and sexism. This is problem that you make as clear as day, and you do it with so much passion.
ReplyDeleteThis piece is an amazing piece of art, and I applaud your passion.
Great job, Zoe! I love your passion in this piece! I think this is really important, especially now with all the political and social debate on rape culture. I really think you should post this somewhere else because it is a great piece. I agree that girls shouldn't have their freedom away and instead we should teach men.
ReplyDeleteSuper good!